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Bismillahi Ar-Rahmani Ar-Rahim
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Following the Messenger of Allah is a Must
"Prayed Istikhara but never saw the dream!"
Does this ever happen to you that you prayed Istikhaara but did not see the dream? Well, the answer is: It is not necessary to see a dream after Istikhara Dua. It is not necessary that you get a dream or a “feeling”. Rather, in Istikhara Prayer Allah guide you towards that which is best (Khayr) for you. If you do the prayer of guidance (Istikhara) with the proper manners, the most important of which is to truly consign the matter to Allah and suspend your own inclinations, then Allah will make events unfold in the direction that is the best for your worldly and next-worldly affairs. First of All let’s see what is Istikharah and Istikharah Dua…
How to perform Salaat al-Istikhaarah (Prayer of Guidance)
For the Dua of Istikharah in Arabic, download this book: http://www.alquranclasses.com/?p=622
Allah says: “…and consult them (concerned persons) in the affairs. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him).” [3:159]
Reported by Jaabir ibn Abd-Allaah al-Salami (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said:
“The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to teach his companions to make Istikhaarah in all things, just as he used to teach them Soorahs from the Qur’aan. He said: ‘If any one of you is concerned about a decision he has to make, then let him pray two rak’ahs of non-obligatory prayer, then say: Allaahumma inni astakheeruka bi ‘ilmika wa astaqdiruka bi qudratika wa as’aluka min fadlika, fa innaka taqdiru wa laa aqdir, wa ta’lamu wa laa a’lam, wa anta ‘allaam al-ghuyoob. Allaahumma fa in kunta ta’lamu haadha’l-amra (then the matter should be mentioned by name) khayran li fi ‘aajil amri wa aajilihi (or: fi deeni wa ma’aashi wa ‘aaqibati amri) faqdurhu li wa yassirhu li thumma baarik li fihi. Allaahumma wa in kunta ta’lamu annahu sharrun li fi deeni wa ma’aashi wa ‘aaqibati amri (or: fi ‘aajili amri wa aajilihi) fasrifni ‘anhu [wasrafhu ‘anni] waqdur li al-khayr haythu kaana thumma radini bihi
Translation: “O Allaah, I seek Your guidance [in making a choice] by virtue of Your knowledge, and I seek ability by virtue of Your power, and I ask You of Your great bounty. You have power, I have none. And You know, I know not. You are the Knower of hidden things. O Allaah, if in Your knowledge, this matter (then it should be mentioned by name) is good for me both in this world and in the Hereafter (or: in my religion, my livelihood and my affairs), then ordain it for me, make it easy for me, and bless it for me. And if in Your knowledge it is bad for me and for my religion, my livelihood and my affairs (or: for me both in this world and the next), then turn me away from it, [and turn it away from me], and ordain for me the good wherever it may be and make me pleased with it.” [Reported by al-Bukhaari, 6841; al-Tirmidhi, al-Nisaa’i, Abu Dawood, Ibn Maajah and Ahmad]
ISTIKHARAH DREAM:
Many people think that after Praying Istikhaarah there has to be a dream or a feeling of ease in the heart, and so on, but that is not the case. Even if no such thing happens when a person has prayed Istikhaarah and done his best to find out what is best for him, such as consulting people, examining the issue and asking those who have experience, then he goes ahead and does it, then it is hoped that this will be best for him, even if he does not feel at ease in his heart in the beginning. Even if we assume that he does not succeed in this matter that he goes ahead with after praying istikhaarah, it may be good for him because he does not know it and Allah the most Knowledge able knows.
Some of us pray Istikhaarah and wait till they see a dream. But this is not what has been told by Prophet (Salalahu Alaihi Wa Salaam). The Prophet (Salalahu Alaihi Wa Salaam) told us to pray Istikhaarah and consult others, not to rely on what is seen in dreams.
When Allah makes something easy for us, after having decreed it and accepting our Du’a, this is a sign that it is good to go ahead and do it. The existence of obstacles and difficulties is an indication that Allah is pushing His slave away from doing it. This meaning will be very clear when one ponders the meaning of the Hadeeth of Jaabir concerning al-istikhaarah, where the Prophet (Salalahu Alaihi Wa Salaam) said:
“… O Allah, if You know this affair – [and here he should mention it] – is good for me in relation to my religion, my life, and end, then decree and facilitate it for me, and bless me with it, and if You know this affair to be ill for me towards my religion, my life, and end, then remove it from me and remove me from it, and decree for me what is good wherever it be and make me satisfied with such.”
STATUS OF DREAMS IN ISTIKHARA:
Before looking into Istikharah dreams one must know about the types of Dreams:
1. Ru’yaa – good visions (dreams)
2. Dreams by the Satan to frighten us
3. Workings of the subconscious/ imaginations
It was narrated from Awf ibn Malik (Radianlahu Anhu) that the Prophet (Salalahu Alaihi Wa Salaam) said: “Dreams are of three types: some are terrifying things from the Satan, aimed at causing grief to the son of Adam; some are things that a person is concerned with when he is awake, so he sees them in his dreams; and some are a part of the forty-six parts of Prophecy.” [Ibn Maajah, 3155]
It was narrated from Abu Huraira (Radianlahu Anhu) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Dreams are of three types: glad tidings from Allah, what is on a person’s mind, and frightening dreams from the Satan. If any of you sees a dream that he likes, let him tell others of it if he wishes, but if he sees something that he dislikes, he should not tell anyone about it, and he should get up and pray.” [Ibn Maajah, 3154]
Sometimes it may happen that we are inclined towards a thing, we Pray Istikhara and see Dream about it. But one should not totally rely on Dreams as dream can be the working of subconscious too. As to what a person thinks and sees in his daily life. Plus one cannot interpret any dream by their self. One has to seek the advice of some scholar. If we assume that the interpretation of the dream suggests something good, good dreams are no more than hints, but they cannot be relied on. Rather one should try to find out and ask the concerned people in that regard as it is stated in the Ayah that explains Istikhaara:
“…and consult them in the affairs. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him).” [3:159]
from: http://www.alquranclasses.com/?p=805